The Effect of the Clothes we Wear

I always knew that what we wear affects how we feel, but didn’t expect to see it in such an obvious way..
Chayale has been a bit jealous of the baby lately, asking me “to put down the baby” and hold her instead, and other such comments..
But when I dressed them in matching clothing for the first time, I saw right away how it affected Chayale’s feelings towards her - 
She started acting like her big sister and “protector” instead of her competition! 
I would love to discover some more simple ideas for how to encourage sibling love and loyalty 😅🙏




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